Whether you're saying a few words at a wedding or giving a speech at the United Nations, the same rules apply. We know -- we've helped thousands of people rise to the occasion. While our Speaking Tips are not all obvious, they're all very simple. Taken together, they can help nearly anyone give a great speech.

Tip # 1
Who's out there?
The single most important factor in giving a speech, no matter what the occasion, is this: Know your audience! If you don't know whom you're speaking to, then you run the risk of saying something inappropriate. So tailor your material accordingly. Your audience will determine what you say, how you say it, and the tone that you use when speaking. Don't doubt us on this one.

Tip # 2
Poise
It's important from the moment you walk up to the lectern that you exude confidence. If anything, in preparing to deliver a speech, don't rush. In fact, this is the point that you must remember a fundamental of good speaking: BREATHE! Make sure you're comfortable at the lectern and that the microphone is at an appropriate height before you even begin starting (don't tap it! - if it's not working, somebody will sort it out). And before you do start, look at the audience and establish eye contact. Keeping breathing and then begin.

Tip # 3
The eyes have it, the body gives it
Backing up your words with confident eye contact and body language can be a persuasive means of getting your ideas across. Consider for a moment some of the more successful speakers you have seen. Typically, they look completely natural addressing a crowd - as comfortable addressing five hundred people as they would be speaking to five people.

When you stand in front of a crowd, focus on standing up straight and projecting your voice to the audience. Make eye contact with individuals rather than gazing out at the back of the room. By making eye contact your speaking becomes far more intimate with your audience. And don't be afraid to smile occasionally. If anything suggests comfort, it's a smile. As well, gestures are a convincing way of helping emphasize the ideas in your speech. Remember, commit to your gestures - don't restrict them or you'll come across appearing uncertain.

And let's not forget the lectern. Remember, it is not your dance partner. You don't grasp it by the sides or slump over it. It is there to hold your notes, a glass of water and, maybe, a handkerchief. If you are feeling comfortable and don't need to keep looking down at your speech, feel free to step to the side of the lectern during the course of your speech. This shows confidence on your behalf and also removes the barrier between you and the audience.